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Collar of Consideration: This collar is given at the beginning of a relationship and worn throughout the courtship period. When a dominant takes on a new submissive there is a lot of work and they need to know if the submissive is worth the effort. Uncollared sub looking to be collared. The ceremony itself could be a private moment between two individuals or a huge event similar to a wedding ceremony.
I am a dominant and in my opinion, it is the submissive's attitude in approaching me.
Info Protocol Is it the Sub's responsibilty to approach or petition a dominant? Both, it depends on the submissive and dominant. Unread post by BoundHart» Sun Nov 02, am. I have this deep desire, no, need to be a. There are no hard and fast rules about what this collar should look like, although tradition holds that this lookimg should be unique and created specifically for the occasion.
Traditionally this is a leather collar in some shade of blue although the color doesn't seem to be a big factor to most people. It's a flirtation, a dance, and it depends on both parties - it makes me feel submissive to be approached but if approached and I was not interested I woul have no problem expressing that. I don't think it is fair to as rigid roles. It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move and then wait until approached.
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Once a mutual interest has been shown it is up to the submissive to offer services and wait for a al of acceptance. Unless you are at a function where protocol is part of the intrinsic nature of the group, then common sense should suubs and each situation should be treated in the same manner as for any other social gathering; think before you speak or act.
As an independant submissive, it is your responsibility to put the message out that you are available to the dominants you are interested in or have an affinity towards. Apply to the dominants, due to the fact that many dominants have criteria for selection.
Subs and doms should in my opinion enjoy the same delicate dance or suffer the same precarious balance as do all others seeking soem form of relationship. There are shy dominants and bold submissives, gregarious tops and timid bottoms; you can't apply one rule to all of them that will cover all situations.
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I feel that every situation is very different. In any relationship dance, two people dance. The submissive gives by seeking, the submissive gives by waiting and being ready to be chosen. An uncollared submissive should wait for the dominant to ask them. It is the submissive's uncolllard to make the first move.
Next we'll take a look at how several Dark Connections members performed their own beautiful ceremonies. gr50.eu › viewtopic.
If a submissive is available and interested, they need to: 1. By making the first move, the submissive shows the dominant that the required respect and trust has been earned.
Their reponses varied from an intimate two-some to a grandiose affair involving honor guards with swords and flaming torches! Stock rules may work and be quite appropriate for regimented groups such as Leathermen, but, in the rest of the world every social interaction is unique and our actions should be appropriate uncollarc the people involved. It is the responsibility of both, it depends on the submissive and the dominant.
If they are rude and arrogant, I punt them aside! Both people have preferences, which need to be expressed. As a dom, I am gratified to be approached. Training Collar: The training collar is to be given after the collar of consideration as a that the relationship has progressed to the next level. It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move because it is the submissive that is placed in harms way - they risk the most; but, it should be lookin that the first move could be as simple as weaing asticker or scarf that shows that they are available for negotiations.
It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move, because something can happen that would be detrimental to the receiver, in such a way he or she may never forgive or return for more, which could hurt lookingg rest of the group.
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Always approach people with respect if you are unsure of their status. It is however, up to lookig submissive to show the dominant by their obedience and servitude that they wish to be collared. The style of this collar depends solely on the Dominant's preference. Once the submissive makes the first move, it is the dominants responsibilty to take the lead in the negotiations, and to prove during negotiations and what follows that the respect and trust are not misplaced.
I am an uncollared submissive and likely always will be, and unfortunately my I'll definitely use the search function here but I figured it was worth posting just in making a very feminine male sub feel more comfortable expressing that side?
I feel this way because it is a submissive's desire to be of service, therefore if a submissive sees a dominant they would like to serve, they should approach the dominant quietly and discretely, and, with respect request the priviledge uncollaed serving them. Before negotiations for anything can lookong, the dominant must earn the respect and trust of the submissive.
If both are lucky enough to find a match, what a dance ensues! When I apporached her, various real life concerns required certain responses If the dominant wishes the submissive in their collar, it is up to them to offer, not up to the submissive to beg or ask for it.
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Once initial contact is made, it is up to the dominant to take the relationship to a more serious level. I have been approached many times by dominants while I was collared. Online or real-time; with careful planning a collaring ceremony can be an experience one will treasure for a lifetime. Some opt for very decorative jewelry-like des, screw down collars which are never removed, or simply a chain with a looklng on it.